It’s 9.45am, I’m sat sipping my coffee and I’m already in a state of shock.
We are only just into the start of the day and Wendy has already spoken to a woman having a panic attack, helped somebody get to an interview without having a meltdown, and suggested the way forward out of depression.
There are 3 other people in the office directing questions at Wendy and tapping away at laptops as if somebody’s life depended on it.
Maybe it does?
One by one, Wendy answers the questions sent her way and compiles a list of the queries she needs to answer. I call them queries but actually, the answers Wendy’s working on seem like life changing stuff to me.
I’m in the office from which Wendy runs her practice. The walls are full of photographs of Wendy with celebrities and sports people she’s worked with, and just adds to the glamour of an office in Alderley Edge. Wendy is one of the most highly regarded Life Coaches in the UK.
I am struggling to believe that this one women powerhouse, who is busily changing women’s lives within a few sentences, has ever had an anxious moment in her life. Her website tells a story of teenage years blighted by anxiety and how she subsequently became a life coach. Not only is she effortlessly providing solutions, but she is also warm, smiling and very genuine, the sort of woman you just trust implicitly.
“It frustrates me that people think they have to put up with things blighting their life” she tells me.
“I hear it all the time. Maybe they’ve been to see someone else, read a few books and don’t feel any better. They think this thing can’t be fixed.”
The first time I saw Wendy was on the television show, Cheshire Housewives. It really struck me that she understood exactly what people go through. On the show she helped Rachel Lugo with relationship problems, and I remember thinking that Wendy could hold your hand and lead you through the rockiest of relationships. I was excited to interview Wendy and ask her the questions we all want to know the answers to.
Wendy has spent 25 years perfecting her skill whilst working with countless celebrities, fashionistas, and sports stars. I decide it’s probably best not to ask her age but suspect that in that time, she has found solutions to most things. She tells me it was only a few years ago that the exhaustion of seeing back-to-back clients in Harley Street, London, and Cheshire led to the decision to only do face-to-face consultations in Alderley Edge. “I’ve always had clients all over the world in locations such as: New York, Los Angeles, Sydney, and Barbados and more and more clients are embracing online consultations after the pandemic. Some clients will come into the office to see me when they’re in the UK which can be very different when compared with our usual video call from the beach.”
“This is what it’s all about” Wendy tells me. She has just read an email from a client who has had life-changing results. “It’s wonderful to get feedback like this”. Last week I had a 12-week baby scan picture sent to me from a couple who were destined for divorce courts. I don’t always hear how people got on. The biggest compliment is to give clients what they need and then they go off and live happy lives. Of course, some clients come in weekly or fortnightly and have done for years. The wife of one client tells him to book an extra appointment in with me when his stress levels get too high. She says he becomes unbearable until he’s spoken to me.”
I am starting to see exactly why Wendy’s the go – to life coach for celebrities. She is seriously impressive and clearly knows her stuff which she says is due to her training as a psychologist. Not only that, but she just gives you that sense of trust, that she is somebody who can deliver what she says she can. And likeable too, not some stuffy life coach who has never lived in the real world, a woman everyone would want to be friends with.
I’m off at speed, following her round her purpose-built office in Alderley Edge. Plumping cushions and watering plants as she talks, the office is very Cheshire Housewives. I push her about the famous clients she has, and she smiles “It would be difficult to deny the fact that I support the women on Cheshire Housewives as you’ve all seen it on national television. Other than that, all I’ll say is that our private entrance gets used quite a lot.” I fail miserably in finding out any salacious celebrity gossip.
It is time for me to leave. Wendy’s keen to maintain the confidentiality of someone coming in to see her at the office. I am a bit sad to be leaving. Wendy and her team at her HQ have created one of those spaces that wraps its arms around you so you feel safe and inspired.
I leave without any doubt that Wendy’s the real deal. That she can absolutely deliver on her promise to help you be free of problems, quickly and easily, and all with a smile.
